Dating.....something all of us are sooo familiar with. A must do activity when you're at your prime.. or these days, when u reach puberty. When should you start a date with someone anyway?? After 2 phone call sessions? After chatting on the net for sayy.. 32 hours?! Or when your Mommy said he's the one? Yeah been on dates, both bad ones and "Arggh! SCreWWww Curfew" ones. I'm sure most of us went thru all that crap and end up either in a relationship or being friends or simply..back to strangers.

Define Bad:

When the guy starts making the move, like we're on the scene of Titanic where he insisted that I FLY and he'll be JACK. When he starts asking funny questions like "what do you think of me" and "Dyou see us being together?" OR!!! Especially when he STARES, like he'd never seen a woman before and you were the chosen one! And when this happens, you find yourself hyperventilating and praying that your phone will start to ring and had to save someone.

 

I had an unforgettable bad dating experience that took place 5 yrs ago, yeahh i was into IRCing back then, and he was someone i got to know pretty well, exchanged numbers, and we then decided to meet after 2 weeks of talking. Thinking that I 'know' this guy well i assume that he's nice, and he could just be the potential one. And yeahh, I was naive then.. (*snorts) Hmm.. So i decided to see him for myself. He turned out to be generally OK looking except that i hated his hair! He reminded me of the dog with long fringes. But i thought aiight forget the hair, this shouldn't be that bad... right? Ok i lied!! We talked, walked on the streets of the ever so famous Orchard Road and whadya know, he's got the qualities of JACK! (*as defined above) Yup, I hyperventilated and i had to, of course run away, and so i told him that my mom was hoping that i get home sayy by 6. He sulked. I'm serious. That boy sulked! That made him look even worst... and the urge of leaving him stranded there was even greater!! Not until when he 'gave' in and said, ok.. i'll send u home. The train ride was preposterous!! I swear that the commuters in the train had the impression that we had an argument!! Like ..ohh no... the lovebirds are on the rocks....  My hands were so light to smack 'em at their faces if anyone starts to give me the "ohh i'm sorry" look! (*breathe in.... breathe out..)

Well should i even say how a Good date should turn out? Maybe for a start, go on a date with a friend. Not a complete stranger. A good date is also when you catch yourself staring 'unintentionally' at his ass a number of times, and by the end of the night, your cheeks were aching due to excessive grinnings. Best of all is when the long conversations you guys had, made you forget the time and u find yourself hoping that the night doesnt end! Now thats a fairy tale!

 

I'll say dates are fun, but i'd prefer to call 'em Outings. Sounds less formal and i think it'll create a much better setting... Oh not to mention, its to avoid me having nasty imaginations too! *winks