as soon as we strike twenty-one, life leads u in a different direction altogether. conversations leaned more to what we had for lunch, how work's been chewing on the nerves and getting into terms with the speed of time. but when the marriage topic conveniently steps in, the majority of us are faced with the inevitable truth. money.

i had 'the' conversation earlier with dee. all that calculating on how much to save up for the big day. how much would the reception cost us. the price for the gowns maybe. the hefty loan for that new house which comes with big renovation tag. or should i start suck-ing up to the folks now.

and dee had this brilliant idea of getting married as soon as dad receives his biggest paycheck ever, the CPF monies.

like how we had imagined it.. "thanks for the money dad! and in exchange for your generosity, i give you.... TAH DAH! A Grandson!" :)

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Jay's OUT! (oh no!!) there goes my Shah Rukh Khan.
no more masculine on-screen tears. damn.

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.Message to dip.

Thanks babe for the graduation pictures! must have been one hell of a day, i say! again, i cant help but congratulate you over and over on officially becoming an engineer! sexy lah. wish i was there cheering you on. you did great dip. and i am proud of you.

:)